This is a difficult question to answer. Tough love can be an effective tool in an intervention to challenge a friend or family member to fight their addiction, but it also can be a deterrent. Depending on the personality and circumstances of the addict, tough love can have a positive or negative effect on the situation, so it is definitely a strategy that should be communicated carefully.

Tough love is a method of communication that is stern and demanding in order to deliver a message of what is best for an individual. Some people are discouraged and hurt by such a direct form of communication and it can backfire, but it also can be exactly what is needed to break down the barriers. It is best to not confront a friend who you think may be struggling if you or they are unprepared. Counseling is always the best option with support from friends and family.